what if??

what if we had been together ?

what if it was a long happy day?

what if things stayed the same?

what if we never cried?

what if we only laughed?

what if it was like the first day we met?

what if we didnt argue?

what if we didnt have differecnces?

what if we agreed all the time?

what if we were the same?

what if i wanted whatever you wanted?

what if we never got angry with each other?

what if life was one happy day?

what if we never felt lonely?

what if i didnt shed any tear?

what if  what if? 

what is is 

if i didnt have the tears how would i know how precious every smile is,

every argument made me feel more alive, each argument gave me hope,

every angry word told me there were sweeter ones to come,

every sad day gave me hope for a happier one,

every difference made me realise how unique we were, 

the differences were more precious than the similarities, 

i had something to look forward to with each difference.

each difference meant a conversation.

if we had remained the same would we feel the way we do? 

we would have missed out on the deeper things.

if we didnt cry how would i know who would wipe my tears?

if things were the static would we ever grow ? 

would  we the people we are today?

would we know how how much we mean to one another if we stayed the same?

would i ever reflect like this things were the same?  

i wish that this was a perfect world that sadness was a distant memory,

i wish for an end to loneliness and a deep sense of peace,

i wish for this and much more .........

but reality is more precious than imagined perfection ........