Wednesday 25 March 2009

love is....

The Bible tells us patient, kind etc. Its the loveliest of all emotions, felt by animals and humans alike. yes animals too just look at the way they nurture their young or look at the way your pet looks at you and cares for you. Love is worth every minute of it even when it leads nowhere. All relationships are based on love God loves us our parents love us so do our friends , its the expression which differs. Some people show their love in the most obvious ways some are subtle. However love is expressed it is never corrupt . It varies in its intensity but its pure. love can never be impure neither can it be false. love doesn't die either, hatred can die but love is so precious that it can survive the worst. 
Love transcends time and space and even death. Viktor Frankl a concentration camp survivor  would often remember his deceased wife with fondness. It didn't matter to him that she was in another realm and was not physically present the fact that they loved one another was enough. A single act of kindness or love goes a long way. the pleasantness lingers on . Since love is so sacred it is difficult to corrupt it. its difficult to let go of it. its not easy to give up on love. Every minute of it is divine even wen it has to end. 
I have always wondered why people who fall out of love overanalyze their relationship and conclude what they had wasn't true love. if they were asked about their relationship while it was still working out they may have had a different story. How can something so powerful, so beautiful, so divine just die? The answer is it doesn't, love goes on and on. love cant die it cant be false. what was once true will remain true even though the circumstances might change.The circumstances in most cases are unpleasant but not something that are not worth fighting for. Every relationship is made up of 2 or more lonely people who are need someone in their life. despite their faults these people need love and deserve every minute of it. mistakes will be made by either one of them some easily forgivable some not. The mistakes are disappointing to the other partner who expects nothing less than perfection. Fights take place each one accuses the other. In all of this the couple dosent realize that they have someone to fight with someone who will listen to them. Bad as it may get the couple still have each other which better than not having anything at all. The differences maybe big or small but they are not something that cant be overcome. Why do we let die so easily? is loneliness better than having someone with you? Love is to be cherished, nurtured, protected(at all costs) . It shouldn't be neglected or left to die. When everything else in life dies, when everything else fades love is all that will endure :)

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